How To Love Your Wife Physically

If your wife is reading this post, she’s probably happy this is listed first. While the order of this list is not necessarily by importance, hearing your wife is vital. More importantly, listening to your wife. Listening requires concentration and is something you consciously choose to do.

This one isn’t as difficult as the sense of hearing for most men. Many of us are visual. But don’t just see your wife physically, see her for all she is. Appreciate what you see in her, what you see her do, and see her as the most important relationship you have.

There’s nothing I want more out of our marriage than for my wife to know how much I love her.

And if I’m being honest, it’s an area that I struggle with at times.

Running multiple businesses, three wildly active (but totally normal) boys and that crazy thing called “life” often interfere with being 100% aware of my wife’s feelings.

Fellas, listen up. That’s just an excuse and a poor one at best.

She deserves to smell it, feel it, sense it, know it, and most importantly, believe it.

Here are ways to show your wife how much you love her.

Really listen to her.  Put down your phone, turn off the TV, and find out what’s going on in her life.

Don’t flirt with other women.  Do I really need to go here?  Don’t do it.

Give her a massage.  This is a win-win for both parties.  Especially if the massage is in the bedroom.

Give her a kiss on the cheek. But don’t stop there.  A Connected Kiss is even better.

Praise her when she is there.  Talk her up.  She loves this.

Praise her when she is not there.  Don’t talk smack about her to your friends or co-workers when she’s not around.

Make her a hot bath.  If you’re lucky, she’ll ask you to join

Hold her hand in public. Because there’s nothing sweeter than being affectionate in front of others.

Drop her off at the door.  Be her knight in shining armor.

Open the door for her.  Bring the classic gentleman back.

Sit next to her on the couch.  Please no passing of gas.  Trust me on this.  Ha!

Do the dishes.  Don’t stop there.  Clean the kitchen while you’re at it.

Scratch her back

Remind her she’s beautiful.  You can’t tell her this enough.

Make her coffee or her favorite warm drink.  Who doesn’t love hot cocoa?

Go on an adventure that’s her idea. Even if it means it’s something you don’t want to do.